Sister Kyleigh Tyler is serving an LDS mission in Nagoya Japan

Week 13–AWESOME….but 1st bike wreck! (March 22, 2015)

on May 25, 2015


This week has been awesome.

Monday: P-day. lots of shopping. Just to help you understand a Japanese shopping store: anything by the Walmart pharmacy in Utah is in the same isle as the dog food and canned veggies in japan. It’s very different. Definitely not a Walmart. And i can’t really read anything. But it’s always an adventure.

Tuesday: We read with G. Shimai. She’s a Less active (LA) and we read the book of mormon with her. I litereally feeel like a two year old. Then we met with K. San. I actually followed a good majority of the conversation, which is special because i usually have no idea what’s going on. I really love K. San. She’s a harder investigator because she knows that it’s true, but has a hard time acting on it. But i really feel so much love for her. We taught the K. Kaz and it was supper scattered. But it’s always so fun to meet with them. They are awesome members! We made Gyoza, which is special japanese food that is like dumplings. I also got my package from my family! I love you all in Utah!

Wednesday: We biked to the member that lives the furthest away from our house, and she wasn’t home, which was kind of a bummer. We met with the Sa’s who live just down the street from us and who we met on the street. They invited us over, and it was so fun. They are amazing people! They are Buddhist. I wish I knew more about that. Sister P. says there are tons of different branches of Buddhism, and she gets a different answers a lot of the times she asks people. But it was so fun to visit with them. We didnt get too far into teaching, it was mostly just a discussion, but they seemed to really like us. And we definitely like them. Elder F. went on a kokan (transfer, split) to Ogaki, but accidentally took their keys. So we met them at the Eki to grab them for Elder B. and the elder who name i forget staying here for the night. Then we had Eikaiwa!

Thursday: It rained! Of course. One day i will take a pic of me in a kappa. We had a lesson with A. Ky. We watched a movie in Spanish and tried to discuss it. It’s hard because he doesn’t really speak Japanese. But he’s awesome! We also did weekly planning! It’s so long. Needed, but long. Also, A. Shimai and S. Shimai came to spend the night because we had a mission conference the next day and they are from WAY up north. A. Shimai was actually in this area right before me with Sister P.! Sister P. trained her too! so that was really fun.

Friday: Mission conference! We went all the way down to Meito and had to leave at 630 am. that was fun. It was on the Ipads we will be receiving soon. That is the info right now, it may change. The conference was on handling technology appropriately. it was basically a call to repentance and stricter obedience, but it was SO good. I left wanting to be an even better missionary. They told us they would be introducing it slowly into the mission, and that all the features we will be using are going to be introduced slowly. I think it will be a good way to assist in missionary work. They really focused on using it as a tool, and not being an ‘ipad missionary.’ They still want missionary work to be about talking face to face with people.

Then we had training for me and my doki and our trainers. It was so great to see them again. Your doki basically becomes your family, and they are like my brothers. So that was really fun. (doki is who you came to Japan with. I’m starting to forget which Japanese words I’ve defined and what I haven’t. So just bear with me. sometimes words inJapanese are WAY shorter and easier. And I can’t really remember the English word). [Language is coming everyone! YAY!]

Saturday: We went housing and found a kid who wanted us to come back. Kids are great. “Do you or your family want to hear about God?”  “Yeah we do.” We went to eat indocurry with Naan, Which is amazing! We eat curry in the apartment a lot, but this was a resturant. We went with a less active and potential investigator who became an investigator. We taught her at the less active’s house after lunch. Her name is J. and she is awesome. She has such a great desire to follow God. We all felt the spirit so strongly. We finished the lesson and asked her if she would be baptized, and she said yes. She was a little hesitant to set a date because she wants to know more, but we think she is going to come around eventually. She is amazing. I can definitely see how the Lord has prepared her. I love People. We did OYM afterwards and found the funniest couple. They were probably 19 and we stopped them asking if they had a second. The guy goes ‘No we have to catch a train.’ The girl says, ‘No we have a second.’ So we start on our little ‘Watashitachi wa matsu jitsu seito iesu kirisuto kyokai no borunteru desu kedo.’ and she says ‘Sorry, we have a train we have to catch.’ I just love people. My favorite are the people who completely ignore us or who see us and quickly walk the other way, and i am totally serious about that. I have so much love for them. For one, i just think it’s funny, because it’s awkward on their end and not ours for once. And I really see how much they are being prepared by the Lord. And I see how much the Lord loves them. They just aren’t ready yet, but one day they will be. And they probably need the most love.

Then I wrecked on my bike. Yeah, that record lasted long. I still haven’t been hit by a car though. It was dark and I can’t see very well in the dark. I knicked the end of a curb and totally went flying. I’m glad we wear helmets. But i’m pretty sure i bruised my ribs. i have bruises pretty much all over. But it’s all good. Only the first of probably many times I will be not be skilled at riding a bike.

Sunday: Pres. and Sister Y. came to our ward! that was really fun. I didn’t understand a ton, but it was fun. The members really like him. Sister Y. had us do the happy companionship in front of the relief society, which is this list of compliments we give each other every morning. One day i’ll send a picture. They also had a special fireside afterward. President Y. had the missionaries stand up and recite everyone’s name. I was privileged to do it, but he let Sister P. help me. I did pretty well. The ward was really impressed. I think i was too actually. Japanese names can be really tricky. Then we had a member lesson with the Ka’s. I LOVE them so much. You would all love them too. Sister Ka was one of the first one’s I met here, and she is the sweetest.

So this week has been awesome. The language is starting to come a little better. I still can’t speak worth anything, but i’m understanding a lot more. Unless I talk to a grandma. Then i can’t believe i’ve been in Japan for a month.

Here is my thoughts for the week.

This talk was given by David A Bednar last conference. It’s addressed to those who are not members of the church, and it answers the question ‘Why are Mormons so adamant about missionary work?’ It’s excellent, so I encourage you to read it now:

My message is directed specifically to individuals who are not members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I will address a fundamental question many of you may have: “Why are Latter-day Saints so eager to tell me about what they believe and to invite me to learn about their church?”

I pray the Spirit of the Lord will help me to communicate effectively, and you to understand clearly, my response to this important question.

A Divine Commission

Devoted disciples of Jesus Christ always have been and always will be valiant missionaries. A missionary is a follower of Christ who testifies of Him as the Redeemerand proclaims the truths of His gospel.The Church of Jesus Christ always has been and always will be a missionary church. The individual members of the Savior’s Church have accepted the solemn obligation to assist in fulfilling the divine commission given by the Lord to His Apostles, as recorded in the New Testament:

“Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost:

“Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen” (Matthew 28:19–20).

Latter-day Saints take seriously this responsibility to teach all people in all nations about the Lord Jesus Christ and His restored gospel. We believe the same Church founded by the Savior anciently has been reestablished on the earth by Him in the latter days. The doctrine, principles, priesthood authority, ordinances, and covenants of His gospel are found today in His Church.

When we invite you to attend church with us or to learn with the full-time missionaries, we are not trying to sell you a product. As members of the Church, we do not receive prizes or bonus points in a heavenly contest. We are not seeking simply to increase the numerical size of the Church. And most importantly, we are not attempting to coerce you to believe as we do. We are inviting you to hear the restored truths of the gospel of Jesus Christ so you can study, ponder, pray, and come to know for yourself if the things we are sharing with you are true.

Some of you may respond, “But I already believe in Jesus and follow His teachings,” or “I am not sure if God really exists.” Our invitations to you are not an attempt to diminish your religious tradition or life experience. Bring all that you know is true, good, and praiseworthy—and test our message. Just as Jesus beckoned two of His disciples to “come and see” (John 1:39), so we urge you to come and see if the restored gospel of Jesus Christ enlarges and enriches that which you already believe to be true.

Indeed, we feel a solemn responsibility to carry this message to every nation, kindred, tongue, and people. And that is precisely what we are doing with a force today of more than 88,000 full-time missionaries laboring in over 150 sovereign states around the world. These remarkable men and women help the members of our Church fulfill the divinely appointed and individual responsibility each of us has to proclaim the everlasting gospel of Jesus Christ (see D&C 68:1).

More than a Spiritual Duty

But our eagerness to declare this message is not merely the result of a sense of spiritual duty. Rather, our desire to share the restored gospel of Jesus Christ with you is a reflection of how important these truths are to us. I believe I can best describe why we are so forthright in seeking to explain our beliefs to you through an experience my wife and I had many years ago with two of our sons.

One evening Susan and I stood near a window in our home and watched two of our little boys playing outside. During the course of their adventures, the younger of the two boys was injured slightly in a small accident. We quickly recognized that he was not seriously hurt, and we decided not to provide immediate assistance. We wanted to observe and see if any of our family discussions about brotherly kindness had sunk in. What happened next was both interesting and instructive.

The older brother consoled and carefully helped the younger brother back into the house. Susan and I had positioned ourselves near the kitchen so we could see what next took place, and we were prepared to intervene immediately if additional bodily harm seemed likely or a serious accident was imminent.

The older brother dragged a chair to the kitchen sink. He climbed up on the chair, assisted his brother onto the chair, turned on the water, and proceeded to pour a large quantity of dishwashing soap onto the scratched arm of his little brother. He did his best to gently wash away the dirt. The reaction of the little brother to this procedure can only be described accurately using language from the holy scriptures: “And they shall have cause to howl, and weep, and wail, and gnash their teeth” (Mosiah 16:2). And did that little boy howl!

After the scrubbing was finished, the arm was carefully dried with a towel. Eventually the screaming stopped. The older brother next climbed up onto the kitchen counter, opened a cabinet, and found a new tube of medicated ointment. Though the scratches on his little brother were not large or extensive, the older brother applied almost all of the ointment in the tube to the entire injured arm. The screaming did not resume, as the little brother clearly liked the soothing effect of the ointment much more than he appreciated the cleansing effect of the dishwashing soap.

The older brother returned again to the cabinet in which he had found the ointment and located a new box of sterile bandages. He then unwrapped and put bandages all up and down his brother’s arm—from the wrist to the elbow. With the emergency resolved, and with soap bubbles, ointment, and wrappers all over the kitchen, the two little boys hopped down from the chair with bright smiles and happy faces.

What happened next is most important. The injured brother gathered up the remaining bandages and the almost empty tube of ointment, and he went back outside. He quickly sought out his friends and began to put ointment and bandages on their arms. Susan and I both were struck by the sincerity, enthusiasm, and rapidity of his response.

Why did that little boy do what he did? Please note that he immediately and intuitively wanted to give to his friends the very thing that had helped him when he was hurt. That little boy did not have to be urged, challenged, prompted, or goaded to act. His desire to share was the natural consequence of a most helpful and beneficial personal experience.

Many of us as adults behave in precisely the same way when we find a treatment or medication that alleviates pain with which we have long suffered, or we receive counsel that enables us to face challenges with courage and perplexities with patience. Sharing with other people things that are most meaningful to us or have helped us is not unusual at all.

This same pattern is especially evident in matters of great spiritual importance and consequence. For example, an account in a volume of scripture known as the Book of Mormon highlights a dream received by an ancient prophet-leader named Lehi. The central feature in Lehi’s dream is the tree of life—which is a representation of “the love of God” that is “most desirable above all things” and “most joyous to the soul” (1 Nephi 11:22–23; see also 1 Nephi 8:12, 15).

Lehi explained:

“And it came to pass that I did go forth and partake of the fruit thereof; and I beheld that it was most sweet, above all that I ever before tasted. Yea, and I beheld that the fruit thereof was white, to exceed all the whiteness that I had ever seen.

And as I partook of the fruit thereof it filled my soul with exceedingly great joy; wherefore, I began to be desirous that my family should partake of it also” (1 Nephi 8:11–12; emphasis added).

The greatest manifestation of God’s love for His children is the mortal ministry, atoning sacrifice, andResurrection of the Lord Jesus Christ. The fruit on the tree can be considered a symbol for the blessings of the Savior’s Atonement.

Lehi’s instant response to partaking of the fruit of the tree and experiencing great joy was an increased desire to share with and serve his family. Thus, as he turned to Christ, he also turned outward in love and service.

Another important episode in the Book of Mormon describes what happened to a man named Enos after his earnest and pleading prayer was heard and answered by God.

He said:

“And my soul hungered; and I kneeled down before my Maker, and I cried unto him in mighty prayer and supplication for mine own soul; and all the day long did I cry unto him; yea, and when the night came I did still raise my voice high that it reached the heavens.

“And there came a voice unto me, saying: Enos, thy sins are forgiven thee, and thou shalt be blessed.

“And I, Enos, knew that God could not lie; wherefore, my guilt was swept away.

“And I said: Lord, how is it done?

“And he said unto me: Because of thy faith in Christ, whom thou hast never before heard nor seen. … Wherefore, go to, thy faith hath made thee whole.

“Now, it came to pass that when I had heard these words I began to feel a desire for the welfare of my brethren, the Nephites; wherefore, I did pour out my whole soul unto God for them” (Enos 1:4–9; emphasis added).

As Enos turned to the Lord “with full purpose of heart” (2 Nephi 31:13), his concern for the welfare of his family, friends, and associates increased simultaneously.

The enduring lesson we learn from these two episodes is the importance of experiencing in our personal lives the blessings of the Atonement of Jesus Christ as a prerequisite to heartfelt and authentic service that stretches far beyond merely “going through the motions.” Much like Lehi, Enos, and our little boy in the story I recounted, we as members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints have felt the anguish associated with spiritual uncertainty and sin. We also have experienced the cleansing, the peace of conscience, the spiritual healing and renewal, and the guidance that are obtained only by learning and living the principles of the Savior’s gospel.

The Atonement of Jesus Christ provides the cleanser necessary to be made pure and clean, the soothing salve to heal spiritual wounds and remove guilt, and the protection that enables us to be faithful in times both good and bad.

Absolute Truth Exists

To you family members and friends who are not members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I have attempted to explain fundamental reasons why we are missionaries.

Absolute truth exists in a world that increasingly disdains and dismisses absolutes. In a future day, “every knee [shall] bow” and “every tongue [shall] confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father” (Philippians 2:10–11). Jesus the Christ absolutely is the Only Begotten Son of the Eternal Father. As members of His Church, we witness He lives and His Church has been restored in its fulness in these latter days.

The invitations we extend to you to learn about and test our message grow out of the positive effects the gospel of Jesus Christ has had in our lives. Sometimes we may be awkward or abrupt or even relentless in our attempts. Our simple desire is to share with you the truths that are of greatest worth to us.

As one of the Lord’s Apostles, and with all of the energy of my soul, I bear witness of His divinity and reality. And I invite you to “come and see” (John 1:39), in the sacred name of the Lord Jesus Christ, amen.

Good Eh? I have been reflecting a lot about my missionary purpose. in Alma 17, there is a great missionary named Ammon who preaches to a king who has no christian background – Just like me!! I love Ammon, He’s an awesome example. The beginning of the chapter focuses on Ammon and his brothers in leaving on their missions. in the mtc we talked about how alma 17:11 was like their missionary purpose

11 And the Lord said unto them also: Go forth among the Lamanites, thy brethren, and establish my word; yet ye shall be patient in long-suffering and afflictions, that ye may show forth good examples unto them in me, and I will make an instrument of thee in my hands unto the salvation of many souls.

I LOVE this verse! Because this is essentially what i am doing! they went to share the gospel out of a pure love for the Lamanites and they had a desire to share the gospel with them to help them improve their lives. Another thing that is so impressive to me is Ammon’s desire to serve people and every moment in his mission. This this what i’m trying to do now. I’ve been focusing on developing Christlike attributes and am focusing on Charity and Love. King Lamoni is overly impressed with Ammon’s service, and i think that is part of the reason that he was so interested to hear about the gospel. Service and simply loving people is a great way to start being missionaries!

I know my letters and blog reach a lot of people who are not members of this church. I’m so grateful for you in supporting me, honestly it means the world to me. And Just as David A Bednar said: When we invite you to attend church with us or to learn with the full-time missionaries, we are not trying to sell you a product. As members of the Church, we do not receive prizes or bonus points in a heavenly contest. We are not seeking simply to increase the numerical size of the Church. And most importantly, we are not attempting to coerce you to believe as we do. We are inviting you to hear the restored truths of the gospel of Jesus Christ so you can study, ponder, pray, and come to know for yourself if the things we are sharing with you are true.

I know they are true. This church means everything to me. I’m so grateful for the opportunity I have to serve a mission. Every day i am blessed to meet great people and improve myself.

I have a challenge for you, each and every one of you that reads this letter: General Conference is on the 3rd and 4th of April. (actually, it’s the next week for me! we get it a week later, and we will be going to ward building to get it in english) Sorry, here is the challenge: Write down one question. Any question. one that you really really want to know the answer too. How can i strengthen my family, How can i be more patient, what does it mean to give service, does God really exist, anything really. Then start praying. Really pray. Then watch General Conference. Preferable the whole thing, but even if it’s just 1 session. I think you will get an answer. Maybe it will be something an authority says. maybe it won’t be anything that they say but it will be a feeling or thought that comes to you. I promise that you will feel the spirit of the Lord as you listen to those 15 men of God speak. They are apostles of the Lord. They are telling us what God wants us to hear. I’ll do this too. And i will let you know how it goes for me. I encourage you to write it down. i testify that God answers prayers. The Lord loves you. And i know He loves me. .

I love this gospel and i love everyone back at home! Keep smiling!

Sister Kyleigh Ann Tyler

Japan Nagoya Mission


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